The decision to have a child is a life changing one for any individual or couple. It affects relationships with others such as parents, brothers and sisters, wider family, neighbours, colleagues, friends who may be directly or indirectly involved. Whether the difficulties in conceiving have been anticipated, or are encountered only when a couple start trying to conceive, there is a sense of loss which each person experiences and copes with in his or her own way.
Along with sadness and distress, other feelings may include anger, anxiety, helplessness envy, longing, blame and guilt. There can also be an accompanying sense of confusion and isolation, with others, even family members not fully understanding. Consequently, relationships can come under strain, adding to any difficulties.
Additionally, for a couple the time when one partner most needs the help of the other may be the time when it is least available as each is under pressure to cope and is not always able to support the other. It may also be that one partner holds back out of concern for the other, or for fear of making matters worse for them both.
Counselling can give you the time and space to explore and share your thoughts and feelings. It can also help you clarify any areas of confusion and try to find new ways of coping. Counselling gives you the opportunity to work through the feelings you are experiencing, to discuss any issues that have arisen and to look at other ways of moving forward.
For those who are considering treatment that includes the use of donated sperm, eggs or embryos, it is a requirement that anyone wishing to donate or to use donated sperm, eggs or embryos must attend implications counselling. This is also the case for those wishing to pursue surrogacy.
Counselling is for individuals, couples as well as other supportive relatives or friends, as appropriate. Sometimes an individual or a couple needs someone to talk to who is separate from the rest of their life; who has no personal preference concerning any decisions; who is willing to listen with care and respect, and to give support, but not advice. The counsellor here at the Centre is trained to be such a person, and is also informed in medical and technical procedures along with the social and psychological aspects of fertility difficulties and treatment.
Counselling is available to every individual and couple before, during and after treatment. Sessions are arranged by appointment and can be for one session or a number of sessions depending upon individual circumstances and needs.
As soon as you have been referred to the hospital for treatment you can make an appointment for counselling, if you wish. The first meeting is for a mutual exchange of information and decision about appropriate further sessions.
Counsellor Centre for Reproductive Medicine University Hospital Clifford Bridge Road Coventry CV2 2DX
Telephone: 024 7696 8879 - Centre Reception 024 7696 8886 - Direct Line
Counselling respects confidentiality, individuality and a person's responsibility to make his/her own decisions. It does not provide 'all the right answers' but offers support to help you find your own answers and the best way forward for you.
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IMPORTANT INFORMATION ON BLOOD TESTING DUE TO COVID-19
If you are experiencing symptoms associated with COVID-19, e.g. fever, loss of taste or continuous new cough, please DO NOT attend for a blood test.
Click on the map for information about phlebotomy clinics in Coventry. You can book an appointment online at the locations in red.
Please book an appointment before attending for a blood test. Click on the ‘Book Online’ button above. Booking an appointment helps patients, their carers and family members to plan their hospital visit better, helping to reduce clinic waiting times and enabling patients to be seen much more quickly.
Location: Outpatients Department, on the ground floor. Opening hours: 8am-4.45pm, Monday to Friday (excluding bank holidays).
Children under 16 years old will need to book online here.
Please book an appointment before attending for a blood test, click on the ‘Book Online’ button above. Patients from Rugby and the surrounding areas are able to access the Friends Blood Taking Unit at the Hospital of St Cross.
Referrals for blood tests can be from GP's, practice nurses or from hospital consultants. Patients are also able to leave other samples, such as urine, which have been collected at home, at the hospital's Pathology Reception.
Location: Near Brookfield House, just off North Road - map here. Opening hours: The blood taking clinic sessions for adults and children are listed below:
Monday -Friday 7am-4:45pm Appointment only
Wednesday Evening 5pm-7pm Suspended due to COVID
Saturday Morning 7am-10pm Suspended due to COVID
April 2020 NEW - This Clinic is now by appointment. Please book an appointment before attending for a blood test. Click on the ‘Book Online’ button above.
Address: Stoney Stanton Road, Coventry CV1 4FS Location: Access is via the main doors, the Phlebotomy team are in Area A. Opening hours: Monday to Friday (excluding bank holidays). 8am–4.45pm
Glucose Tolerance Test (GTT)
Specialist Tests - There are a small number of specialist tests where blood needs to be taken on a hospital site as the sample must be transferred to the laboratory rapidly for the test to be undertaken. Click here for a list of these specialist tests and to find out more.